It's official...I am no longer a blog virgin.
What will my first entry be about? BOYFRIEND SCHOOL. There should seriously be a place where guys can be taught what to/not to do when they have a gf. There probably is some sort of training out there but I bet it only teaches men how to be even more oblivious to their loved ones feelings and gives them advice on how to get laid regardless of what mood their gf is in.
Where did my inspiration come from you ask? My darling bf. He's a good guy, don't get me wrong. He still does things without thinking about who his actions will affect though. Everyone makes mistakes but after being with someone for over 3 years, you should know by now the things you need to avoid. Women are not the ones who are complicated, so don't try to blame us. Communication is the key factor here. A simple phone call can make a HUGE difference. So, all of you bfs out there that live with your gf...call your girl if you're going to be late or you want to go chill with your friends for a while after work! Don't think of it as "checking in", it's called being courteous.
When you actually do call your gf and your friends are around, don't talk to her like she's just some random person. Who gives a shit what your friends think of you sweet talking your lady. The friends who give you shit, try to influence you to ignore your gf, & do things they know will piss her off are jealous of the fact that you have a gf and they want someone who will love them too. Don't be afraid to stand up to your buddies when you're in love. You don't go home to your buddies, right? Why would you want to piss off the one you share a bed with then? Think before you act! These are simple guidelines, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out how to be in a good relationship. If you think about it, relationships aren't hard work. People make them hard by acting like dumb fucks.
This concludes the first lesson in Boyfriend School. There definitely will be more lessons to come so stay tuned!
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Hey Leenie,
Thanks for the invitation to your blog. I take it as a compliment that you would allow me to read it. If you have any more advice on being a good boyfriend, you write it down. Give me enough gold on the subject and Ill give you advice on what makes a good gf. BJ'S, jK. Seriously, keep up the good work, Ill continue to pray for you and never give up. Im there for you if you need me pal. Take Care. Your friend Jerry
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